We cannot always protect our children, but we can prepare them for an
eager world that is ready to entice them with its fleshly pleasures and
flattery—a world that is zealous to swallow them up in pride,
self-satisfaction, self-reliance, and, ultimately, self-worship.
It is not the duty of schools or Sunday school teachers or even
ministers to lay the divine foundation of truth. Rather, it is a
parent’s privilege before God through the means of family worship. What
we teach our God-given children through a dedicated and consistent
example of worship will shape their character, teach them wisdom from
above, and prepare them to face the challenges and temptations of daily
living with grace and trust in God.

Scripture is full of verses that show that God esteems family worship.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7
says, “And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in
thine heart: and thou shall teach them diligently unto thy children, and
shall talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou
walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.”
Proverbs 22:6 reads, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Psalm 78:4-8 exclaims: “
4We will not hide them [
truth and ordinances of God, emphasis mine]
from their children, shewing to the generation to come the praises of
the LORD, and his strength, and his wonderful works that he hath done.
5For
he established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel,
which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to
their children:
6That the generation to come might know them,
even the children which should be born; who should arise and declare
them to their children:
7That they might set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments:
8And
might not be as their fathers, a stubborn and rebellious generation; a
generation that set not their heart aright, and whose spirit was not
stedfast with God.

In his book
The Case for Family Worship, Puritan George Hamond
examines
the biblical bases for family worship through the examples of Abraham,
Job, Joshua, Cornelius, and Christ. He states, “Family worship, rightly
and religiously performed, is truly the worship of God; for it partakes
of the general nature of divine worship, is the same for it with
substance, and has all the essentials of it. That it comes to be
performed in families is only accidental and a mere circumstance. They,
therefore, who will not admit of family worship ought, in reason, to
show either that it is not divine worship or that it cannot be performed
in families, that the Scriptures may not be read in families, nor God
invoked or praised, nor the members of the family be instructed in the
knowledge of God, nor be exhorted to live soberly, righteously, and
godly. These are the instances in which family worship is to be employed
and exercised.”

In his booklet
The Duties of Parents,
J.C Ryle says: “We live in days where there is a mighty zeal for
education in every quarter. We hear of new schools rising on all sides.
We are told of new systems, and new books for the young, of every sort
and description. And still for all this, the vast majority of children
are manifestly not trained in the way they should go, for when they grow
up to man’s estate, they do not walk with God. Now how shall we account
for this state of things? The plain truth is, the Lord’s commandment in
our text [Prov. 22:6] is not regarded; and therefore the Lord’s promise
in our text is not fulfilled.” In his booklet he offers helpful hints
on the right training of children, and urges his readers as follows: “Be
very sure, if you would train children for heaven, these are hints that
ought not to be lightly set aside.” He discusses topics such as
training your children with all tenderness, affection, and patience;
training them with an abiding persuasion on your mind that much depends
on you; training them with a knowledge of the Bible; training them to
develop a habit of prayer, faith, for obedience; always speaking the
truth; always redeeming the time; and always avoiding overindulgence. As
parents train their children they should remember continually how God
trains His children, the influence of their own example, the power of
sin, and the promises of Scripture.

It is never too late to start your family in the delight and discipline of worship. In his book
Family Worship,
Donald Whitney graciously encourages men in the following way:
“Fathers, husbands—if you have been negligent in this duty and great
privilege, repent by starting family worship today. Again, you may feel
awkward about what to say to your wife or your children about starting,
but simply say that God has convicted you of your responsibility to lead
in family worship and you want to start at a given time today or
tonight. Almost certainly your wife will be thrilled more than you can
imagine to hear you say that. Your children may or may not be as
enthusiastic, but that does not really matter. The less interested they
are, the more your family needs family worship. The Lord will help you.
He does not call His Spirit-begotten sons to this task without giving
them the power of the Holy Spirit to accomplish it. The same Father who
gave you the Gospel and who drew you to Christ will strengthen you by
His Spirit to put on this badge of godly manhood.”
Are you unfamiliar with leading family worship and feel unsure of what to do? A helpful book by Joel Beeke,
Family
Worship,
has a chapter dedicated to its implementation. In this short read he
offers easy suggestions that will help you establish God-honoring family
worship in your homes. These will also help you to avoid two extremes:
an idealistic approach that is beyond the reach of even the most
God-fearing home, and a minimalist approach that abandons daily family
worship because the ideal seems so out of reach. As a God-honoring
preacher and loving and caring husband and father with many years of
experience in family worship, Beeke provides sound advice on planning
the what, where, and when of family worship and lays out practical
guidelines for the reading of Scripture, prayer, and singing during
family worship.
Family worship is not a dreadful burden laid upon you by our Almighty
God. It is a blessing and a privilege. Our heavenly Father gave the
best He had for the worst of us. Rest not the neglect of family worship
upon your feelings of insecurity or tiredness, rest with your feelings
on Christ who is abundantly available to help you and guide you. God is
not asking you to give something up; rather, He wants to give you
Himself.
According to A. W. Pink the advantages and blessings of family
worship are incalculable! First, family worship will prevent much sin.
Daily prayer in the home is a blessed means of grace for allaying those
unhappy passions to which our common nature is subject. It awes the
soul, conveys a sense of God’s majesty and authority, and sets solemn
truths before our minds. How can those who neglect the worship of God in
their families look for peace and comfort therein? Personal piety in
the home is the most influential means, under God, of conveying piety to
little ones. Children are largely creatures of imitation, loving to
copy what they see in others. Finally, family prayer gains for us the
presence and blessing of the Lord. There is a promise of His presence
that is peculiarly applicable to this duty: “Where two or three are
gathered together in My name—I am there among them”(Matt. 18:20). Many
have found in family worship abundantly rich help and communion with
God.
In
Family Worship, Whitney suggests eight motivations for family devotions:
- What better way to evangelize your children daily?
- What better way to provide a regular time for your children to learn the things of God from you?
- What better way to provide your children with an ongoing opportunity
to ask about the things of God in a comfortable context for such
questions?
- What better way for you to transmit your core beliefs to your children?
- What better way for your children to see the ongoing spiritual example of their parents?
- What better way to provide workable, reproducible examples to your
children of how to have a distinctively Christian home when they start a
home of their own?
- What better way for getting your family together on a daily basis?
- Isn’t this what you really want to do?
In agreement with all these godly authors, we appeal to you not to
neglect the goodness of this discipline. Before long you will experience
the fruit-bearing, soul-reviving, and mind-altering benefits of family
devotions for yourself and your family. Don’t delay. Start today.
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